You Need To Let Your Future Happen Naturally

“When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.”

Enjoy life dont spend your life looking for it.

“Don’t try to see things in people they do not possess.”

“Don’t look for happiness because it can’t be found unless you bring it with you.”

“Create a vision of your future and let it happen.”



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Hard Times Create Survivors

Arm your children with respect.“Weak adults are created by parents who are too caring.” Babies are fighters, they have to fight their way into this world through the smallest tunnel imaginable, they cry out loud if their needs are not being satisfied. It’s up to parents to harness this fighting spirit and create an adult who can come up with a resolution to every problem they will face on their journey through life. 

The problem with some parents is they see babies as defenceless and vulnerable who need them to do everything for them; as the baby grows into a teenager, the parents don’t change, they still try to do everything for them at home, and even in school, they try to fight every battle for them. This doesn’t help the child or the adult they will become because they don’t know how to find a resolution to their problems, at every turn they go back to their parents, or they end up being bullied throughout their entire life.

A good parent will not fight their child’s battles but they will arm their children with the weapons they will need. Self-respect and respect in that order with a sprinkling of modesty are the most important weapons they will need.

“Cotton wool insulates nobody from life’s problems.”

“You survived every battle you faced because your parents were strong enough to let you go.”



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You Have The Solution to Every Problem

Focus on you.Do you want to be successful?

“Success is about overcoming obstacles because everybody will have to climb their barriers to reach success.”

Do you want a peaceful life? 

“The world of full of people who believe everything they need to find peace can be found through acquiring wealth.”

What are you willing to pay?

“Money will not help you to get what you truly need.”

“Working your mind and body will get you everything you need.”

 What you really need to accomplish.

“When you find peace within, everything you need will flow into your life.”

“The greatest battles of life are fought everyday between what you think you want and what you really need.”

 A lot of people confuse needs and wants.


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The Wheel Bearing on My Car Keeps Whining

Do not allow minor problems ruin your life.“A minor problem can become a major problem if you only concentrate on the problem.” 

It was the most annoying noise, every time I sat in the car to go anywhere, the first thing I would hear was the whining noise from the damaged wheel bearing, it spoiled every journey. The first time I brought it to my mechanic’s attention he said, “that’ll be grand for another few months,” Of course, nobody else could hear the noise at all, my children were oblivious to the noise; when I said I was going to get it fixed, my eldest said, “I was wasting money.” After following some of my own advice I began to accept the noise as part of my journey and it stopped being a problem, it became something I would fix when the time was right. That time did arrive and now I can’t remember what the noise sounded like. It’s like that with most minor issues. “Here today, forgotten tomorrow.”

The above is a typical example of only concentrating on the problem; the noise didn’t stop me from getting to my destination, it stopped my enjoyment of the journey. This happens in life, minor issues become major issues because we give far too much of our attention to them.

“What you concentrate on is what will be most important to you; always concentrate on the good stuff,”

“Life is ten percent of what happens to you and ninety percent of how you react to it.” ~Lou Holtz.


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You Will Not Value Anything Without Peace of Mind

“Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.” ~Buddha.

Anger solves nothing.Some people say you always regret the things you don’t do but from experience this isn’t always the case because realistically speaking you can’t go back in time so you have to accept you were never meant to do those things.

Actions taken through anger cause more people to feel real regret. How many people are filling up the insides of prisons because they acted instead of taking a deep breath and counting to one hundred, counting to ten is just not enough time to calm down.

The people who don’t act are the ones who bottle up their anger inside of themselves, and throughout their lives they find themselves angry at everybody and everything; nothing in their life is ever enough.

Going to prison is the result of harming others; harming yourself is the result of not going to prison; there must be a middle ground where you can release your anger without causing harm, and there is, it’s called acceptance.

“Accept everything you have experienced in your life was meant to happen exactly the way it did because it was preparing you for a wonderful future.”

“Peace of mind is important in your pursuit of happiness. Let there be peace within you so that you may finally experience peace in your external world.”





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Bring Into The Future Only The Things You Want to Find

“When you make peace with your past, you will only find peace in your future.” ~ Anon

If you find yourself angry about people and events from your history, you will certainly face similar events in the future because you are projecting those vibes out into the world. “What you send out will be returned to you.” ~Karma

Can you change the past? No.

Can you change your future? Yes, as long as you can accept your past was meant to happen exactly the way it did in order to prepare you for your next challenge.

“Do not pray for an easy life, pray for the strength to endure the life you’ve been given.” ~B Lee.

That ship has sailed.

“Don’t swim after ships who have left the harbour, life doesn’t work that way.”

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Nobody Should Have Control Over You

“We can never attain peace in the outer world until we make peace with ourselves.” ~Dalai Lama.

A day will dawn when everything will make sense.

“The only power people have over your thoughts and emotions is the power you give them.”

“If you correct your mind, the rest of your life will fall into place.”Lao Tzu. 

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The Moment You Release Your Negative Emotions

You pick your moment to shine.

“The moment you realise you do not need other people’s positive words to feel positive about your future is a moment you will never forget.”


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A Good Night’s Sleep is No Good, You Need to Sleep Good Every Night

“One day you will move on when you finally realise what’s keeping you awake at night.”

A good nights sleep is necessary.

The most important thing you will ever do is sleep, and that’s not the sleep where you pick the bed-clothes off the floor because you’ve been tossing and turning all night, or possibly grinding your teeth down to the bone. It’s the kind of sleep where you wake up feeling rested and ready for a new day. This requires you to have a sleeping routine where your mind is rested before sleep. I would share mine with you but I just google, “sleep routine,” and it came back with 3,470,000 results: I think the topic has been written about enough, don’t you? I’ll leave you with this quote.

“A good laugh and a long sleep are the best cures in the doctor’s book.” ~Irish proverb


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What Would You Do Today if Money Did Not Matter

Fiction is interestingEverything I’ve read would indicate human evolution is heading in this direction.

A time in the distant future has arrived where money is no longer needed to have a better life. Machines can synthesise everything you need, food, clothes and building materials. Machines have replaced the need for physical labour.

You can download information directly into your mind using a neural transmitter which means education systems are no longer needed.

You can transport yourself from one place to another through the matter stream in an instant.

Every disease has been eradicated through DNA manipulation which has added hundreds of years onto the human life span.

It has been established that everybody has their own vibrational frequency which they can control and only people with a similar vibrational frequencey are attracted into their lives.

People can communicate telepathically with other people by switching their frequency providing that person accepts their call which has lead to people controlling their thought process.

We will have created the perfect world, a world where people control their own destiny. What then will be the purpose of life?

“Today’s reality is yesterday’s fiction.” ~Anon

“Logic will take you from A to B. Your imagination will take you everywhere.” ~Albert Einstein.


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