A real problem is a situation that always requires more than one person to find a solution.
Attitudinal problems while no less real in the mind of the person who has the problem only need one person to change their mindset to find the solution to their problem.
Your goal in life is to determine if you’ve got a real problems or an attitudinal problem. I’ll leave you with a couple of quotes that make a lot of sense.
- “You have the power to change the outcome or you have not.” ~Anon.
- “People who contradict your values will not be your friends.” ~Anon.
- “God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can and the wisdom to know the difference.” ~Anon