“The happiness of your life depends upon the quality of your thoughts: therefore, guard accordingly, and take care that you entertain no notions unsuitable to virtue and reasonable nature.” ~Marcus Aurelius
A problem will often disappear when you stop labeling it as a problem and think about it as an opportunity to make the changes you need to make in your life.
The only thing you have full control over are your thoughts and they determine your attitude towards everything. Think kindly, and you will see a kind world all around you.