Other people will never be able to tell you who you are, that’s your job, however, they can teach you who you aren’t.
Who you are: You know your every thought, word, action and life-experience; they are the foundation of who you are. Nobody else has that information so they are not in a position to judge who you are. Everything they share with you tells you about their insecurities, not yours.
Self-control is your strength. You have mastered the ability to remain calm and not allow your mood to be affected by other people’s insignificant words. You are consciously controlling the direction your life is taking, not allowing it to be directed by irrational reactions.
Who you aren’t is somebody who’s prepared to let other people’s ignorance affect your inner peace; your intelligence is in control, not your emotions.
“The day you control your mindset is the day you control your life.” ~Anon