You cannot change your past, you can’t remove your memories either, that’s not the way your mind works but everybody can improve their future.”
Your world revolves around the perception you have of yourself, if you beat yourself up over decisions or events from your past, your future will never change. Only when you learn to accept everything was meant to happen exactly the way it happened, will you be in a position to change your future. If you don’t learn to like who you are today, you will not like who you will become tomorrow.
“You cannot feed your family from an empty pot, you need to look after yourself first.”
“Every saint has a past, every sinner has a future.” ~Oscar Wilde