The power of positive thinking is out there for everybody to see; it’s clearly evident in every person who has it, they don’t waste their energy on things they can’t control they only concentrate on the things they can and that is themselves. They have a confidence about them that people can feel and they believe everybody in their company is laughing with them and never at them.
People who do not think positively are never sure if people are laughing with them or at them, they may blame their insecure feelings on being overweight, their appearance, career success or their personal relationships; it doesn’t matter what they blame, that insecurity will not go away unless they change the way they think about themselves.
How do they change how they react to other people’s laughter.
- The first step is,
“Accept yourself for who you are, and not for who you think you should be.”
- The second step is,
“Change the things you can change and change your attitude about the things you cannot.”
- The last step to believe,
“The winds of heaven change suddenly; so do human fortunes.” ~ Chinese proverb.